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Friday, July 07, 2006

How To Ask The Right Questions With Your Online Date...

You can find the man or woman of your dreams with Online Dating. Since it started, Online Dating has brought people together who would never have met any other way. You can make your Online Dating experiences better by starting them right.

When you begin an online friendship that you are hoping in your heart will turn into a romantic relationship, there are some questions you should ask right away. The answers you get can tell you whether to proceed with the relationship or head for the nearest exit.

The Most Important Questions Answered

First you need to ask in as diplomatic way as possible, “What is the biggest mistake that people make when dating online for the first time?”

The answer you get can reveal a lot about the person. Like their attitudes on the opposite sex and what kind of issues are vitally important to them in their other relationships.

The next question that you need an answer to is, “What qualities in a guy/girl do you think are important for a successful relationship?”

If the person tries to pass this off as a joke or doesn’t have an answer, it probably means they really haven’t thought about it and are not looking for a serious relationship. In this case, you will do well run the other direction!

And last but certainly not least, you should find out what happened to end the person's last relationship. If they tell you it was all the other person’s fault or take all of the responsibility for the breakup themselves, that is not a good sign. The answer you really want is that they just grew part or mutually consented to the break-up.

Remember that Online Dating is more of a process than instant results, even though the Internet is often associated with convenience and speed. Also remember that the object of emails, chats and phone calls are to get to know the other person.

You want to know what kind of person he or she is before you actually meet them in person. So ask questions and answer questions the best you can.

Important! In as simple as this secret may sound, MOST singles DON’T really think much about these important questions that they themselves and their partners do not often answer or even reflect on. It’s like spelling otherwise than Online Dating success!

How You Can Engage The Help of Your Friends

Now, this is something most singles often refrain from when it comes to securing a greater relationship that requires greater understanding and acceptance. For odd reasons, I don’t know why. But don’t go without putting this secret into practice!

Out Here in the Real World…

… We always ask our friends for introductions to eligible people and for their opinions about people we are dating, don’t we? Of course, we do.

The Internet is just an extension of the real world so your friends can help you there and you can help them. If you have joined, or are considering joining, an Online Dating service, ask a friend or two (or even three) to join you.

You will double or triple your chances of meeting the right pair for you. That’s very possible, because the next time you talk to your friends, instead of asking them if they would like to join you at a movie, ask if they would like to join you on an Online Dating site.

Chances are, they’ve been thinking about doing just that and it will help both of you to find true love or, at the very least, some interesting new friends.

How Can this Help?

Firstly, it doubles your chances of meeting someone. Your friend can recommend someone to you and you can do the same for him or her. Two sets of eyes are better than one.

Another way it can help is that you can arrange a chat room date with your friend as well as prospective dates. Chatting is always easier in a group where you really know at least one person.

If you both meet someone, you can arrange to double date on your first off-line meeting. The old saying, “There’s safety in numbers.” is true.

Important! Most singles seek a second opinion before dating someone so if you are both members of the same site, you can get that second opinion easily.

Call your friends today and get going on finding that special someone. You can do it!

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