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Monday, May 07, 2007

What Happened to Britney Spears? Part 3
In Part Two of What Happened to Britney Spears we talked about Theory # 2 An Expressive Personality Rebound, now for Part Three we will talk about Theory # 3, A Pattern, possibly a family pattern.

Theory #3 – A Pattern, possibly a family pattern.

Last but not least, Britney and K-fed may have been caught in a pattern together. In order to explain a pattern, we need to explain the subconscious mind. Wikipedia describes the notion of the subconscious to be” the deepest level of consciousness, that individuals are not directly aware of, but still affects conscious behavior.”

More important than what it actually is, is what it does and how it affects our conscious behavior. The subconscious mind is a broadcaster; it is also the keeper of emotions, the keeper of memories and the keeper of habits and patterns. The subconscious mind is also the keeper of all energies. It is just a field, it is like a hard drive on your computer and like how a hard-drive stores and runs programs that you download into your computer, your subconscious mind stores and runs a collection of patterns and programs it that it is imprinted with.

How it develops it’s collection of patterns or programs is that the subconscious mind is very impressionable, it absorbs emotions and memories and events and traumas, it then broadcasts these emotions, memories, events and trauma in their energy form(since everything is made up of energy). Then because of the Law of Attraction, we will draw in people, places, things, events and emotions that are vibrating at that same level of energy that will cause patterns and programs to form and/ or repeat itself.

The Law of Attraction is a Universal Law that states that like attracts like and we will draw into are life what ever energy or vibration that we are vibrating at.

Since the Subconscious mind works like the hard-drive in a computer, when a pattern has been installed, it will continue to play over and over again until the pattern is uninstalled and replaced with a new pattern.

Often these patterns are self destructive and dysfunctional which will affect the person and the person’s family as well as passing these self destructive and dysfunctional patterns on to their own children by the children’s own subconscious mind absorbing the person’s patterns by being in their environment. So even if the child has made a conscious effort to not repeat the behaviors of their parents that they are consciously aware of and have observed, if they have absorbed the pattern, it needs to be taken out of their subconscious mind and replaced with another pattern otherwise the pattern is still running under the radar, they will still find themselves repeating the patterns of their parents much to their disappointment and frustration.

There are highest and best patterns and patterns that are not in your highest and best.

Often two peoples’ patterns will fit hand and glove together. If it is a negative pattern or a not a highest and best pattern for both people involved (regardless of what the actual pattern is) they will often feel stuck, their careers come to a halt (even if they are on Dharma) and people around them are often not in approval of what they are doing or who they are together with.

This definitely may have happened for both Britney and Kevin. Both were constant media fodder, Britney’s career was put on hold, Kevin’s rapping career stalled and both developed an overall negative view among society.

For Britney, now since they are on their way to divorce, is still getting quite a lot of fallout, however for Kevin, people appear to be seeing be seeing him in a new light. He has cleaned up in appearance, interviewers are even saying he’s an o.k. guy and I predict an acting career in his future.

However, for Britney, I have a feeling that as she returns to her dharma, (she’s working on her new album) she will have a comeback also. Hopefully, if there is a negative pattern, she will recognize it, and find ways on how to embrace, let go and develop a new highest and best pattern for herself. In the meantime returning to her dharma while learning how to be free is what will be highest and best for her.

~ Melody Chase

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