Is Your Partner Cheating on You? 14 Signs To Determine Whether Your Partner is Having An Affair - Part 1

By Melody Chase

You have a feeling in your guts telling you that your partner is cheating, you are not sure what to do about it, do you hire a private investigator or confront your partner about it?

The feeling isn't going away, but you know that if you do try and confront your partner on it and you are wrong it will cause trust issues in your relationship.

In Part 1 we will cover the first 7 of 14 signs that you can observe to see whether your partner may be cheating so that as you gather evidence, it will help you in your final decision as to whether to discuss with your partner whether he or she cheating or not.

1) Your Partner Changes His/Her Appearance:

Changes in your partner's appearance may be a sign that your partner is cheating such as dressing nicer or in a way that makes him/her look more attractive than usual or if your partner starts doing things to make his or herself look better like losing weight, working-out or working out more or if he/she changes his/her hairstyle/and or hair color. (This is always the #1 sign for women who are having an affair.)

2) Your Partner Has a Healthy and Exuberant Glow To Him/Her:

Does your partner have a healthy and exuberant glow both in his or her face and in his/her aura or energy? In fact, if your partner looks similar to how he/she looked and felt when the two of you first met and started going together is also a sign that your partner may be cheating.

3) Your Partner Seems Distant or Far-Away:

Does your partner seem distant or far away like he/she has emotionally, energetically and physically disconnected from you? (This is usually the #1 sign that your partner has found someone). This distance is probably because your partner is either totally into the person he/she is having the affair with or is thinking about him/her and imagining being with him or her all the time. Disconnecting from you may also mean that your partner has found what he/she is looking for in the other person so your partner has released his/her efforts from trying to get it from you.

4) Your Partner is No Longer Fighting With You:

This may be a sign if your partner is suddenly no longer fighting or arguing with you or if your relationship is past the point of fighting (numbed out, shutdown or if your partner has already written you off before) you will no longer feel the intensity and frustration radiating underneath the surface in regards to issues that used to bother your partner.

5) Your Partner Seems Happy and Content:

It may be a signif your partner seems more happy and content than usual and he/she is not complaining about anything.

6) Your Partner Takes Up New Hobbies, Interests or Sporting Activities:

Your partner takes up new hobbies, interests or sporting activities but to your surprise he/she doesn't tell you about it.

7) Your Partner's Account of His/Her Day Is Either Overly Detailed or Really Vague:

Your partner's explanation of his/her day has changed by either becoming very calculated and detailed or very vague and he/she will change topics very quickly.

In Part 2 we will be covering the next 7 signs to determine whether your partner is cheating or not.

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