Having What You Want In The Way That You Want It In Your Relationship

Rob (Director/Head Counsellor of the Centre for Life Management/LMC Relationship Centre) once had a phone consultation with a client who we will Finola.

Finola had read Rob’s book True Love on Demand (www.trueloveondemand.com). She understood how to create or manifest someone into her life but she was having trouble wrapping her head around the idea that she could have what she wanted in the way she wanted in a relationship. Finola was also having trouble explaining why she felt this way.

Rob started getting the conversation flowing by giving her examples of her thought processes in another area of her life other than relationships such as if she new exactly what kind of car she wanted and money was not as issue, what would stop her from getting the car she wanted?

Finola thought it over and she said that there isn’t anything that she could think of as to why she wouldn’t buy that car. In fact, it was kind of silly as to why she wouldn’t.

Then Rob asked her if she could have the partner of her dreams and if how he was drawn into her life wasn’t a problem, is there anything that would stop her from having this partner in her life?

This time Finola did pause, she was blocked. After some deep thinking she came up with some dysfunctional beliefs and reasons such as she didn’t feel she deserves her highest and best partner, even though she did believe she had the power to draw him in.

Upon deeper investigation, it came out that she came from a family where Finola’s parents had settled for each others, so Finola had picked up the belief system that she too would have to settle for who ever came along.

There are many beliefs that can cause people to block themselves for allowing their highest and best partner from coming into their lives such as the following:

They don’t deserve their highest and best for one reason or another.

It’s not fair to others who don’t have their highest and best.

Others will be jealous if you have your highest and best partner.

Others will not approve or you feel like you don’t have permission to seek out your highest and best mate.

You have a belief that you have to settle because there isn’t anyone out there who’s perfect.

In order to change those beliefs you just have to acknowledge your old beliefs so you will not be in resistance to them and then replace them.

The following are few tips to help you in changing your beliefs.

It is an abundant world; you can have exactly what you want. The only reason why others don’t have what they want is because they believe they can’t have what they want.

If we are not suppose to have what we want why would be naturally be given to power to create it?

I have heard that the original definition of sin is falling below your fullest potential. A highest and best relationship is an opportunity to be in a supportive and expansive environment where you can express at your fullest potential. When you are not in your highest and best relationship no one involved can reach their highest potential. Why would anyone want to hold themselves back let alone their partner from creating yours and your partner’s highest and best relationship?

When you do choose to draw in your highest and best partner regardless of your present circumstance, it creates a pebble in the pond effect for everyone involved.

For example with my ex-husband we were not the highest and best for each other, we actually held each other down financially and dharmically. When I finally decided to release and draw in my highest and best soulmate not only did my soulmate show up but my dharma also revealed itself. As for my ex-husband he met his soulmate, as well as a stable home life and a high paying occupation that he absolutely loves.

So for Finola, after we explained about the different beliefs that she would have to shift, we then suggested the following in order for her to truly have what she desire in relationship, there are three main important things for her to do and to believe in:

1) You have to know what you want.
2) Need to believe that you have the right to have what you want.
3) Need to give yourself permission to have what you want.

By the end of the phone consultation Finola understood that she had to uncover any beliefs she had then replace them with the belief that she had the right to have what she wanted as well as giving herself permission. She already had a good idea of what she wanted in a mate so she was now able to openly and freely draw him in.

~ Melody Chase

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