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Sunday, August 26, 2007

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How to Create a Prosperous Life!

Getting money and riches and a wonderful mate in your life doesn’t have to be difficult.

In fact, most of us are making our lives harder than they need to be.

But by learning about the laws of attraction and how they can be used to bring money, wealth, and a wonderful life long companion into your life, you can start creating the life of luxury that you’ve always imagined. And it doesn’t require knowing anything about stocks or bonds either.

Create your intention today

To begin your life of riches, you need to have a clear idea of what you want. This might be a monetary figure or perhaps a certain luxury item that you’ve had your eye on.

Whatever is the in the vision in your head that relates to prosperity, that will be the focus of your intention.

An intention is a focal point or a ‘wish’ that you have for your life. However, it’s not just about listing all the things that you want; you should try to be more specific about the thing that you really desire.

When you focus on just one thing, you can create a higher energy for the universe to respond in kind.

Figure out the battle plan

But unlike some books will have you believe, you will need to take action after creating your intention. You can not think and have those bags of money appear in your home. You need to create a plan that will help the universe move you toward your dream.

If you’re interested in creating more wealth, maybe you can find an extra job. If you want a certain car, maybe you can start looking into purchasing one or at least learn everything you can about the car.

You want to try to focus your attention on this thing that you want in your life so that it’s all you think about. The more energy and attention you give to this symbol of prosperity the better.

Then, you want to create some sort of action plan that allows you to recreate the energy every day. It’s easy to want something one day, but then start to lose your desire the next.

In order to continue your energy and your desire, you will need to do something each day that will further emphasize your commitment to having this dream come true.

This might mean that you go to the car dealership each day to look at the car or work at your part time job after your ‘normal’ job.

Whatever creates the feeling that makes you want to persevere and still ‘claim’ your dream; do it.

Taking action makes action

When you start to do things related to your dream, you are shifting the energy in the world around you.

This causes other shifts in your environment that you may not even notice. For example, by going to the car dealership each day to look at your desired car, you might start to build a relationship with the salesperson that is there.

You and he might talk a bit and get to know each other. By building a sort of friendship in this way through your action and commitment to your dream, this salesperson might tell you when the car is going to be on sale long before any other buyers find out.

What you’re doing through action is attracting the possibility of your dream coming true. By taking the time to taste your dream before you actually have it, it will increase your desire even more.

And the more you want something, the more you crave it, the more likely the universe will provide your dream to you.

Other actions can include going to meetings or training sessions that might be related to a new and higher paying job that you might want.

Or you might head to the bank that you want to do business with when you have your millions of dollars. People may think you’re crazy, that is, until you show them that you were right all along.

Being grateful at the finish

When you do finally possess the thing that you’ve wanted for so long, it’s not enough to take it and stop the process. You need to then be grateful to the universe for providing you with the opportunity to live this dream.

You might want to send the salesperson a thank you note or a small gift. You might just want to whisper thank you to yourself when you get something that you’ve wanted.

In some way, you want to express your gratitude for the things that you have received. And in this way, you’re inviting the universe to continue providing for you – because there’s always something else that you just might want…

~ Cucan Pemo
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Thursday, August 23, 2007


What Is The Appeal of Captain Jack Sparrow?

It is safe to say that most movie goers have heard of Captain Jack Sparrow from the two Pirates of the Caribbean movies and the newest Pirates of the Caribbean movie: Pirates of the Caribbean, At World’s End.

It is also safe to say that there is something appealing about Johnny Depp who plays Captain Jack Sparrow and the character itself that has struck a chord with people. All three movies were huge hits, Johnny Depp was nominated for an Academy Award for Best Actor for the first Pirates movie and the name Captain Jack Sparrow is practically a household name and not to sound cheesy or anything but try saying his name and conjure up his likeness without smiling. (Go ahead, try).

Anyway so what is the appeal of Captain Jack Sparrow?

Well, this is what I have established from his character:

He walks (or saunters or swaggers) to the beat of his own drum.
He is elusive, never tells anyone what he is doing, what his intentions are, as well as never explains or defends what he is doing.
He thinks outside the box.
He uses creative solutions and problem solving in the moment.
He uses his intuition (after all in the first movie he found an island that can’t be found using a broken compass).
He is free and light on his feet.
Has a big picture plan but goes moment by moment.
He acts in self-interest and promotes self-interest (Remember the “Code”, if a pirate falls behind leave him there.)


With all these attributes he comes across to most people as elusive, shady and you don’t feel too comfortable at the thought of having him have your back – yet there is something so appealing and attractive about his character, so what could that be?

Well it may be our shadowside; you may have heard Carl Jung or Debbie Ford talk about Shadowsides. For the purposes of this article I will explain Shadowsides as the idea that there are all aspects and energies of people within ourselves There are sides of ourselves that are either not dominant or are repressed and/or there are aspects about ourselves that we think that we cannot love for many different reasons. It is called the Shadowside because it is our hidden side, and also because people are often repressing or denying an aspect of themselves that they see in others. They may also consider it a Shadowside because it appears to be dark or negative to them.

We often will draw in people, places and things into our lives so we can become aware, understand, accept, appreciate and even forgive that aspect of ourselves. There may also be aspects of ourselves that we need to draw out, balance or compliment, in doing so we return to remembering our wholeness.

In the case of Captain Jack Sparrow, the shadowside can be a representation of what our true self truly desires, but society and our own rules (just like the majority of the rest of the characters in the Pirates of the Caribbean movies) are in judgment of.

Since society is so pro-group adhesion, that the thought of acting in self-interest seems scary as well as uncontrollable, or more specifically if you are acting in self-interest then you are uncontrollable. However, it is Jack Sparrow’s approach to life that is actually the highest and best way for a person to be a full expression of themselves and not a carbon copy of some collective group’s beliefs and agendas.

So the appeal is that if we weren’t so held down by society and our own rules and judgments we would all like to be like Captain Jack Sparrow and by falling in love with his endearing character is one step closer to being able to fall in love with our own true self.

Melody Chase is a Writer and Counsellor at the Centre for Life Management/ LMC Relationship Centre and Co-author of Love by Design. She can be reached by email at relationshipcentre@shaw.ca