Is Your Partner A Male Diva? Part Two

Welcome to Part Two of our Male Diva 7 Part Series.
Hi, it’s Melody.

Let’s jump right in and find out the second way on how you can give your Expressive Male Partner what he wants, in the way he wants it. If you need a review about what Male Expressives are all about, please read Part One of our Male Diva Series.

2) Start Every Conversation Off With Something Positive: Usually in most articles I suggest using the “Mary Kay Style” of approaching negative feedback with your partner, which is to say something positive - then something negative - then something positive.

For example “Thank you for volunteering to peel the potatoes, it really helps me out, I noticed that you are missing some of the spuds, so you may have to dig in a little deeper, however I’m so happy at how quickly you are getting through the whole bag.”

However, with some Expressives, especially if they are super sensitive of looking bad, (Looking bad to an Expressive is the equivalent to Kryptonite for Superman) keep the negative feedback to a minimum.

Prioritize only negative behaviours that are of the highest importance to you and just let the rest go and as I started off saying, no matter what- always start every conversation off with something positive.

I think I’ll have fun again and make Part Three of our Male Diva Series, yet another Cliffhanger.

Wishing You Fun, Freedom and Love,

Melody Chase

P.S. In case you may be wondering who the male is in the picture, it is the character Vincent Chase, from the HBO series “Entourage”. In the series, he plays a popular Hollywood actor and classic Male Expressive who keeps his entourage of best friends with him at all times who unconditionally love and support him for who he is.

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