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Thursday, October 02, 2008


Is Your Partner Cheating On You? 14 Signs To Determine Whether Your Partner is Having An Affair - Part 2

In Part 1 we covered the first 7 out of 14 signs to determine whether your partner is having an affair. Now in Part two we will cover the next 7 signs.

8) Your Partner's Explanations Of Where He/She Has Been Isn't Making Sense:

An example would be if your partner says he/she stopped off for a big grocery shop on the way home from work and that is why he/she is so late, yet your partner only came home with a few items.

9) Your Partner is Using More Gas and Mileage On Their Vehicle:

If your partner has the same routine everyday but there is a lot more miles on the speedometer and more gas being used up this is often a tell-tale sign of an affair.

10) Your Partner's Friends Don't See Your Partner As Often:

Your partner's friends don't know where your partner is most of the time or has not seen or got together with him or her as often anymore.

11) Spending Extra Time In Communications With Their Co-worker or Assistant:

This may be a sign if your partner has a business partner, co-worker or assistant, and your partner is having longer than normal conversations and are having more frequent communications whether that is in person, by phone, text or email etc with this person from work.

12) Your Partner Has a Business Partner, Co-worker or Assistant That They Talk About More Often or Never Mentioned Before:

Another sign is that if your partner has a business partner, co-worker, assistant or even a friend who your partner suddenly can't stop talking about or on the other end of the spectrum, your partner may have a new person at work that he/she works closely with and your partner never mentioned him or her to you before.

13) Your Partner's Sex Routine Has Changed:

Your partner is either too tired to have sex a lot more than usual or has sudden spontaneous urges to have more passionate than normal sex with you. Often your partner may go back and forth between being too tired and spontaneous as well.

14) Changes in Clothes or Appearance of Clothes:

No one wants to be paranoid but if you do have your suspicions that your partner is cheating, start paying attention to the little details of their clothes, for such things as markings or smells, or are they changing a lot or taking a lot of showers more than usual. Also look out for the subtle things like certain clothing items disappearing, or you find a pair of socks you never seen before or things like your partner keeps forgetting to put his/her wedding ring/band back on after your partner has taken it off.

Without a confession from your partner, getting directly caught in the act or hiring a private investigator, figuring out or getting a conformation of whether your partner is cheating or not is no easy task, but with as much information, knowledge and observation on your side, it will help in your final decision as to what to do.

Melody Chase

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